the script according to the TA, is the plan of life unaware that the child has decided to act in the real stage because at the time of his life he was functional.
But that is ok to eight years, or five, it is no longer in the adult stage.
The child makes decisions about the world sometimes limited compared to reality, since it is not equipped to read it as an adult.
And the script is not ok, loser, is a bottleneck that limits the growth and development of a happy life.
So says Maria Teresa Romanini, in the preface to "Born to Win":
"Every decision that is good, go forward without be eased by the development of the subject, becomes limited and repetitive in its cage intrinsic need for growth. "
Healing from the script is not an event that occurs once and for all. Rather should progressively train to exercise new choices. It is necessary to daily training as the athlete is training at the gym. Sometimes you can fall nell'identidficazione copionale to see if there is something good in the old behavior. You're probably aware that the conduct copionale "stench" of old! You realize that they have more options in the face of reality and then the script is not ok, no longer has any appeal. It 's like an old habit that is used and which now goes to the basement of old clothes! This process can be well
descitto from this poem:
Autobiography in five short chapters of Portia Nelson.
First Chapter
walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk. There
fall.
'm lost. I am helpless.
not my fault.
It will take forever to find the way out.
Second chapter
walk down the same road.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I pretend not to see it. There
relapse.
I can not believe to be the same place.
not my fault.
It takes a long time to get out.
Third Chapter
walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
I see there. There
fall again ... is a habit.
My eyes are open. I know where I am. It 'my fault.
I go out immediately.
Chapter Four I walk down the street.
There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.
around it.
fifth chapter
walk down another street.
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